(or how to move onto a sailboat) With the advent of our 50th birthdays came the usual sorts of life evaluations that one goes through. At what have I succeeded? What contributions have I made? What do I have left that I want to do before I die? Living on the water was high on both our lists. For any who share the dream, and for our family members who might not understand, this is our story. We don't know where it will take us, but welcome along for the ride!
Saturday, February 27, 2016
Miscellaneous Pics Underway
Posted by
Deb
Just a few miscellaneous pics I had on my camera for your enjoyment this Saturday evening.
| Our friends' Bristol 38.8 Skimmer leaving the anchorage at Middle River |
| Sunrise at Middle River as we left the anchorage to head for No Name Harbor |
| A section of the almost continuous skyline between Ft. Lauderdale and Miami |
| We were heeling so hard that I was looking way up in the sky from the low side of the boat. |
| One of several races along the coast. This one was just north of the lighthouse by No Name Harbor in the background. |
| Miami skyline from our mooring ball at Dinner Key |
A Different Perspective
Posted by
Deb
If there is any one thing that I have taken away from two and a half years of cruising, it's that cruising is different for every cruiser that's out here. There is no single right way to live this life, no single thing that works for everyone attempting it, no method or means that is universal.
You might not believe the aforementioned is true if you read the glossies that tell you the list of equipment that everyone simply must have prior to pushing off. You also might not believe that's true if you even use a valuable tool like Active Captain reviews (like we avidly do) to plan your stops and stays.
I've been thinking a lot about this because we're sitting on a ball at the Dinner Key Mooring Field in Coconut Grove, FL. We've been here multiple times in the last two years and it has become a home base of sorts. Great people at the mooring office, brand new marina office with beautiful showers and laundry, free shuttle, stores close by, fantastic public transportation all abound. If you've never been here before, the mooring field is a long, thin piece of marginally deep water that snakes out from the Dinner Key Marina into Biscayne Bay. Way out into the bay. There are a little over 200 mooring balls, and the larger and deeper your boat, the farther out into the field they will place you. In the past, we've occupied balls in the 40's, 50's and 80's. This time we're on 148.
We're .7 miles from the dinghy dock, about a 20 minute ride in dead calm water, which the mooring field is exactly never. In rough water it's at least a 30 minute slog with our small motor, and a very wet one at that, rough enough and long enough that we decided not to deploy the dinghy at all this stay, but to utilize the free shuttle that operates on the hour from 8-5 each day. The moorings are very exposed to all but wind out of the west, and even that is no protection for boats on balls above 100. If you happen to be on a ball positioned right next to the channel (like we are this time), the wake from passing boats will rock and roll you mercilessly. If we had been assigned this mooring the very first time we came here, we might feel entirely different about this place. Since we know and have experienced the gem that is Coconut Grove, even these inconveniences are not enough to deter us from enjoying our stay here. But I couldn't blame someone from writing a bad review, if they chose to do so, based on their experience with the exposed moorings.
My point in telling you all of these details is that you should take reviews and opinions of fellow cruisers with a grain of salt, us included. What one cruiser finds annoying, another might find a small inconvenience to pay for great rewards. We recently ran into a gentleman at Vero Beach who was ranting about this mooring field and the people here. I was surprised and caught off guard since we've loved the place so much in previous visits. His experience clearly was different, his expectations not met, and his comfort level exceeded. Gather all the information you can, determine your comfort level and assess your desires, then make up your own mind. Be willing to stop in a place more than once to see if your experiences are consistent. Be willing to forge a new path if there are no reviews. You just might find a hidden gem like the Coconut Grove Drum Circle, one of the best experiences we've had since we left to go cruising. Oh, and even with all of it's rolly issues, the Dinner Key mooring field has some of the best sunsets anywhere in Florida. Hands down. But, really, you have to come decide for yourself.
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
Second thoughts
Posted by
TJ
So here we sit, as snug as the proverbial bug, nestled into the proverbial rug. Off our bow is 65 pounds worth of Mantus set hard in the bottom mud. Between it and the boat lay 80 feet of chain, snubbed by two 15 foot lengths of 5/8s 3 strand, properly protected from chafe. With a cold front in the offering we would have laid out 100 feet of chain, but No Name is a tight and crowded anchorage where thought must be given to swing room, with several other members of the cruising tribe sitting nearby.
This
afternoon, while the crew of Kintala enjoyed some time on shore with
friends from Skimmer, and visited new friends who showed us around
their trawler, a really new looking Island Packet dropped anchor
just off our port side and slightly behind us. We didn't see them
come in, didn't talk to them, and never really thought much about them. They were big boys on their big boat and not
upwind of us. The only concern was that they had given us enough room
to swing past their bow. The front would pass with the winds clocking
from south to north-north-west, twisting every boat in the harbor
clockwise. Watching the radar this afternoon I expected a rather easy
passage, but a pretty quick swinging of the winds. It would bear watching.
And
so it was. Late evening the rains started and we closed up the boat. The rains got
harder, the wind moaned in the stays, and the boat started to swing
and sway as the confused gusts that come with a front swirled around.
Looking out the port side ports it wasn't at all clear that we had
the room we needed to have our stern clear the Packet's bow. Grabbing
foulies I headed outside in the driving rain in case we needed to
motor ahead a bit. Kintala swayed some more and started to swing
quickly in a text-book frontal passage wind shift; fully 180 degrees
in about a minute. I couldn't have turned her that fast using the engine.
As
we swung it was clear that we were going to have plenty of room
forward of the Island Packet. In fact there was way more room than
expected. Indeed, there was way more room than there should have
been. It was a bit confusing. (For those of you who haven't ridden
out a cold front passage in a crowded anchorage, confusing is often
the name of the game. Visibility is poor in heavy rain, it is
normally dark, boat lights and background shore lights easily lead to
illusions of motion that are not really there, and distances can be
near impossible to judge. All it all it can add up to a few moments
of shear excitement.)
As
every other boat in the anchorage started the swing to the west and
then north, the Island Packet stayed facing south. And that is when I
realized they had drug away from us and fetched up against the
mangroves and shallow water at the edge of No Name Harbor. No wonder
there was so much room.
The
rain faded away quickly. The maximum winds were probably less than 40
knots. Just about a non-event compared to what we have come to
expect. Yet, somehow, that big old boat had dragged merrily away. A
couple of us shone spotlights at the ports trying to get the crew's
attention. Two from a nearby boat launched their dink and rowed over
to tap on the hull. After a minute or two the Island Packet crew
came up from below, having been totally unaware of their short drift
into the trees. A couple of minutes later enthusiastic use of the bow
thruster pivoted them off the shallow spot, they motored close past
our starboard side.
“Any
damage?” Deb asked as they went by.
“No,”
came the reply, which was good to hear.
“How
much scope did you have out?”
(Here
I must digress for a moment. Deb is the scope scoping-out master. 5:1 makes her very unhappy. Less than 4:1
will simply never do. 8:1 is fine, 10:1 is better.)
“I
don't understand what happened. We had 30 feet out”.
Thirty
feet! That is less than a boat length. We use more than 30 feet of
line to tie Kintala to a dock. How in the name of all that is wet and
salty does the crew of a Island Packet 40+ footer think that 30 feet
of scope will hold in anything more than a gentle breeze?
It can't be possible that they knew nothing of the impending
weather. It is even less possible that they knew of the impending
weather and thought 30 feet of scope would do. That they were alongside and slightly behind us, and not upwind, is our good luck break
of the month; maybe the year so far.
They
stopped about a boat length off our bow, where I gently informed them
that was no place to drop a hook. I suggested they move out by the
inlet, set the anchor, and let out about 100 feet of chain. (Several
boats left this morning to head to the Islands. We had moved Kintala
well into the harbor in deference to the coming weather, leaving plenty
of room at the far end for wayward Island Packets.)
The
Island Packet is gone and hopefully set secure, far away from us.
But we have learned via the grape vine that the sailboat now upwind
of us, a monstrous looking thing with a massive amount of freeboard
and a giant pilot house, has a broken windlass...and is riding to 60
feet of rode.
I
sure hope the wind doesn't blow very hard tonight. And I am having
second thoughts about some of the members of the tribe.
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Full Moon and Tunes
Posted by
Deb
I posted this video on our Facebook page and it got such a good response that I decided to include it here as a post for those of you who don't do the Facebook thing. Enjoy!
Bare feet and short sleeves
Posted by
TJ
A
few posts ago I mused about bare feet and short sleeves still being
off in the distance. Kintala has covered a bit of distance since
then. Well, a bit of distance at sailboat speeds anyway, and has
settled into No Name Harbor for a couple of days. My feet are bare.
My sleeves are short. We have even retired the heavy quilt, taking it
off the the v-berth and storing it away. The rising temperatures,
mostly blue skies, and definitely clearer water, have done much to
lift the mood on our old Tartan. Sometimes it is hard to tell just
how deep the hole is until one has climbed much of the way to the
top.
We
are, as has become the routine on this journey south, waiting out the
passing of another cold front. There are hopes this one will slip by
without the drama of tornado warnings and 60 knot wind gusts. The
last one caught the weather gurus so flat-footed that they are being
very careful with the forecasts. The Deep Weather discussions are
full of debate, it is kind of fun to read. Here are experts, people
as deeply steeped in the discipline of weather as anyone has ever
been, who are smarting a bit from having be slapped around by their
own hubris. Something that should happen to everyone once in a while.
It
is a regular occurrence for sailors and pilots. Both routinely see
their plans fade away in the face of oncoming weather. It is hard to
boast that “I am the master of my fate” when one sits for a
couple of days waiting to get across Biscayne Bay, or a couple of
weeks before getting a good window for crossing the Gulf Stream. (We
could cross Biscayne Bay, but would rather sit out the weather in the
protection of No Name than riding it out in the exposed Dinner Key
mooring field.) A touch of humility and a dash of humor goes a long
way toward making life easier. Both are gifts that kind of go
together, ones we can enjoy ourselves and share with those around us
at the same time. They are the opposites of arrogance and sarcasm,
which also kind of go together, and are the more likely to be shared
for those of us who live in the US of A.
Bare
feet and short sleeves, humility and humor...they all seem to go
together pretty well in the world of blue sky, clear water, and warm
temperatures.
Wednesday, February 17, 2016
1000 sailors a day …
Posted by
TJ
…
manage to put up a whisker pole
without bending it in half. I would not be one of them.
The
day started out pretty well. Instead of enduring 2 more days of ICW /
opening bridges travel to get from Lake Worth to Ft. Lauderdale, we
took advantage of a weather window to jump outside. One day. Only 2
bridges. No debate. Kintala scooted out the channel on the ebb tide,
doing better than 7 knots. Once turning south there was enough wind
to fill the jib, but not enough to give the WesterBeast a rest.
A
couple of hours in we came upon a small gaggle of sport fishing boats
spread out over a couple of square miles of ocean. There are several
reasons to give sport fishing boats a lot of room. People who take a
million dollars worth of equipment out and burn a couple of hundred
gallons of fuel just to catch a few dollars worth of fish, look at
the world in a way that is beyond me. I'm never sure what they are going to
do. It also seems that sport fishers, so long as they have a
line in the water, are considered “commercial fishers” and thus
are the “stand to” boat. It doesn't matter if they are actually
charter boats who make money by taking people out to catch fish that
are never going to make it to market, or if they are just rich people
out playing for a day. They will still act like “commercial
fishers” and drive anywhere they like with little regard for anyone
else in the area. They also drag hundreds of feet of line behind
their boats, line that is impossible to see. And, as we experienced a few weeks ago in Stuart, when a fisher person has something on the line pretty much nothing else that might be going on in the universe matters to them because they are catching a fish!
So, when
one of the gaggle appeared off our port bow, heading north to our
south, I turned to starboard just to give him room. A
minute later he turned to port, and started closing in on our track
again. Okay then. I turned further to starboard, now getting really close to
the wind and risking back winding the jib. It was enough though, we
had plenty of room, except he turned toward us once more and was now closing
rapidly. Not okay then. Maybe he had caught a fish and wasn't paying any attention to where his million dollar boat was going? In any case he had put us in a bit of a bind. Just before I turned again to let the sail do what it may,
he fell off to turn parallel to us. He was close enough that I could
see the captain holding a phone in one hand. With the other he was
waving toward shore and shouting something that sounded like “Go
away, go away.” Which, in hindsight, seems kind of funny. I was making every effort to "go away" as he tried to run us down.
At least, I think that is what he said. At that moment I was sharing my own view of the last few minutes, along the lines of, “Please
gentle fisher man, would you consider putting down your phone and
steering your boat in such a way as to keep us from crashing into
each other?” (Okay, maybe not exactly along those lines.)
Anyway,
if you happen to be a couple of miles off shore and a few miles south
of Lake Worth, and happen to see a sport fishing boat named Great Day,
you might consider giving it an extra wide pass. Its captain is
apparently a bit of a wanker. If you happen to be a person who
enjoys chartering a million dollars worth of equipment and burning a couple hundred gallons of fuel to catch a fish, maybe there are better places to patronize than Great Day Charters? Surely there are companies who employ captains who are much more professional.
About
the time Great Day disappeared over the horizon the winds faded to the
point where the jib started to flog. We have been working out some
new rigging to make poling out the jib less dramatic. This looked
like a good day to test it out, but the deck monkey failed the test
and managed to trash the pole. The test that came next was getting
the bent pole back on deck. While struggling to get that done, a pod
of dolphins showed up. I think they were getting a laugh from the
deck monkey antics on the good ship Kintala. But here is the thing about dolphins. Even when
they are laughing at you they bring along some magic. Even better,
Deb had sent a float plan to Daughter Middle. Daughter Middle sent a
message back stating that Grand Kids 5 wanted dolphin videos. The dolphins,
including at least a half dozen mother / baby pairs, might have heard them and so came by to make some kids smile, staying with us
for hours. And yes, we got videos.
In
spite of it all the day turned out to be a really good day. Thanks to
the magic of dolphins.
ps: As it turns out the deck monkey made less of a mistake than originally thought. According to Forespar (who made our pole) the one we had was several sizes too light for a boat Kintala's size. It is a bit of a surprise that it lasted this long.
Sunday, February 14, 2016
Go south old man...
Posted by
TJ
Though
we were set to leave Vero Beach on Saturday, word
of a free concert kept us on the mooring ball for an extra night. I am a sucker for live
music, and we have caught some pretty good bands in these last couple
of years. Alas, the one in Vero was not one of them. It may have been
that they were just having an off night. It may have been that is was
just too cold for anyone to get in the mood. (The keyboard player
took every chance he had to rub his hands in front of the heat lamp
set up near his spot on the stage.) Maybe a drummer with wooden
hands, a back-up singer who didn't really have the voice for it, and
the aforementioned key board player were just doing the best they
could, though the lead singer / guitar player was better than
average. I think I'll stick with them just having an off night. Come
to think of it, I was having an off night of my own; distracted,
pensive, and feeling the bruises of these last couple of days. Maybe
it wasn't the band at all?
We
headed back to the boat after the first set, with a stop at the
marina for a long, hot shower. We also took a few minutes to chat
with friends staying in Vero until spring, and muse over the news. It
isn't every day that a Supreme Court judge as controversial as
Antonin Scalia departs this life unexpectedly, and in the midst of a
Presidential Campaign as weird as the current circus. Me thinks the land
dwellers are going to add another ring. Barnum & Bailey would be proud.
The
plan was to stop at the fuel dock in Vero for diesel, water, and a
pump-out before leaving this morning. But the dock has been mostly
blocked since yesterday by a big sport fishing boat. A call to the
marina office right at 0800 revealed that he was a seriously
malfunctioning big sport fishing boat and would not be going anywhere
soon. Hmm, happens to them too?
Instead
of testing the wind and current (and my boating skills) trying to
shoehorn Kintala into the bit of space that was left, we elected to
head south and stop at the Harbortown Marina in Ft. Pierce. It turned
out to be a good choice with easy access. With barely a half hour
lost, Kintala was back on the ICW, sailing (yes sailing) south once
again. We haven't found the Ditch to be very accommodating when it
comes to moving under canvas, but east winds had Kintala romping
along at 7 knots under just the jib for much of the day. Her crew is
still wearing multiple layers with hats, hoods, and gloves, but there
is a forecast of near 80 degrees in the not too distant distance.
But
not yet. Rain fell upon the deck monkey as the hook was prepped to go
into the mud along the east side of the St. Lucie river. Though we
have been sitting secure for nearly two and a half hours, with dinner
done and the dishes washed and put away, my fingers and toes are
still tingling a bit as they warm up.
Wednesday, February 10, 2016
Cold winds
Posted by
TJ
The
crew of Kintala is still reeling from losing Greg. The world is
muffled, and there is a general feeling of being distracted and
distant. A day was lost hiding behind Chicken Island. The run to
Titusville was a good sail on a cold day, but all good thoughts about
the day got washed away with the news from PA.
A
second day was lost in Titusville. We bounced and shivered at anchor
while the winds blew and the temperatures dropped. Nights were near
unbearable with the snubber line groaning under the strain of the
moaning winds. Just about the worst noises that can be imagined for a
pair of heavy hearts lying in a dark v-berth. Finally, in the wee
hours of this morning the winds faded, the boat quieted down, and the
dark became a place of refuge rather than a background for grief.
Sleep finally crept in just before the dawn.
Deb
was up first, checking the weather. There were all kinds of warnings
out for more wind coming to stir up the water. There was even a small
craft advisory for the ICW. But, for all that, the morning was quiet
and cold. She rousted me out of the berth with the smell of fresh
coffee and the idea that we should get while the getting was good. A run to an anchorage about half way to Vero could be finished
before the worst of the weather moved in. It sounded like a good plan
to me. Titusville, through no fault of its own, was a place I dearly
wanted to put behind us.
(The
only speed reference we have is the GPS. Boat speed is a guess as
that thing stopped working after we left Stuart. It has been way too
cold to jump in the water to fix it. Wind speed is also a guess as
that thing apparently got tweaked by a bird in Stuart as well. We
haven't seen the kind of weather needed to go up the mast. The
tachometer is toast too so, right now, we are “old school”
sailors. We set the RPM based on tone and feel. Sail choice comes
from looking at the water, facing the wind, and feeling the boat. If
it “feels” wrong we do something different. I guess we have
learned a little bit about doing this. One of these days though, Deb
really should do something about getting the deck monkey into gear to
get some of this stuff working.)
Seven
knots is roughly twice as fast as what we saw going north a couple of
weeks ago. Eight knots is flat galloping. We blew past our intended
stopping point at 1400 and pressed on for Vero Beach. With nearly an
hour to spare before the sun went down we picked up a mooring ball,
having covered just over 64 nm in just under 10 hours. On the ICW,
with sails flying.
The
world is never going to be the same as it was when we set out south
after this last summer's boat work in Oak Harbor. Death has visited
our family twice since then. We have struggled with bitter winds and endless rains.
The Island are out of reach. But the cold run on this day got us to
Vero. There was a long hot shower waiting on shore. It will still be
cold tonight, but not as cold. The boat sits quiet, secure, and
still. There are friends nearby, and words of encouragement over the internet. Pictures from the week in Daytona
with Daughter Middle and Family bring smiles and warm hearts that
have been touched by cold winds.
It
will be good to sail in short sleeves and bare feet again, but that
is still some distance away. Right now Vero feels like a good port in
a storm, being here again is a relief.
Tuesday, February 9, 2016
Carpe Diem
Posted by
Deb
You hear it all the time. Carpe Diem. Probably more in the sailing world because it's such an excessively abused boat name. You're told it means to get the most out of each day and, like most clichés, it just rolls off your consciousness. But humor me a moment and close your eyes and really think about what it means. Seize the day. Seize the day. Grab it by the balls and don't let go. Wring out of it every drop of life that's available. All the rich colors, flavors, textures, tantalizing smells, the look, the smile, the voice or the touch of a loved one. Because - and you hear it all the time again - you may only have today. This minute.
My oldest brother died yesterday. He was 67 and was expecting to go home from the hospital on Sunday after a heart valve repair surgery that went very well. He sounded great when I spoke to him on Saturday. He spoke of stopping on the way home to buy a new flat screen TV so he could watch some good movies while he rested. A blood infection downed him in less than 24 hours and yesterday he was gone.
Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "We are always getting ready to live but never living it." Life is fragile and fleeting, so whatever your dream is, whether it's selling everything and going cruising, or hiking the Appalachian trail, or climbing Mount Everest, or opening your cafe, or writing your novel, stop preparing and start doing. Because looking back on the last couple years of cruising and knowing that if something happened we at least dared to tackle our dream - and realized it - is much better than finding suddenly that the time we thought we had was gone.
Bon voyage, bro, and happy sailing in the land beyond. We love you and miss you terribly already.
My oldest brother died yesterday. He was 67 and was expecting to go home from the hospital on Sunday after a heart valve repair surgery that went very well. He sounded great when I spoke to him on Saturday. He spoke of stopping on the way home to buy a new flat screen TV so he could watch some good movies while he rested. A blood infection downed him in less than 24 hours and yesterday he was gone.
Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "We are always getting ready to live but never living it." Life is fragile and fleeting, so whatever your dream is, whether it's selling everything and going cruising, or hiking the Appalachian trail, or climbing Mount Everest, or opening your cafe, or writing your novel, stop preparing and start doing. Because looking back on the last couple years of cruising and knowing that if something happened we at least dared to tackle our dream - and realized it - is much better than finding suddenly that the time we thought we had was gone.
Bon voyage, bro, and happy sailing in the land beyond. We love you and miss you terribly already.
Saturday, February 6, 2016
Always good...
Posted by
TJ
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| Departing Daytona Marina's fuel dock |
It
is always a delight when things work out just like they were planned.
With
all the consumables topped off it came time to head south, for real
this time. Turning onto the ICW the jib rolled out into the north
wind while the hull rode the ebb tide. For the first time in so long that
neither Deb nor I can remember the last time, the Beast was reduced
to being nothing but a chunk of silent ballast hiding under the
companionway steps. Ye 'ol Tartan wafted quietly downwind, dolphins
gliding by both port and starboard now and again to nod their
approval. The only downer on the day was the short distance we needed
to cover, just 13 nm to anchor up behind Chicken Island.
Titusville
would be the normal first day's stop out of Daytona but, as has
become the norm, weather is the concern. The professional weather
gurus are not sure what the low spinning up south and west of us has
in mind. It could get pretty ugly, or not. Chicken Island (the
perfect name for what we are doing) is a much better place to sit out
big north and north-west winds than is Titusville. We may move
tomorrow, we may not. But we are feeling pretty good about the day's
choices since, less than an hour after the hook went down, the rains
came.
It
is always a delight when things work out.
Though
the Islands are out of our reach this year, the feeling on board,
amplified by a most excellent couple of hours of sailing, is that we
are “on our way” once again. Our next “need to be someplace”
is months away. All planning is being done without an immediate goal in
mind. Move when it is good to move. Sit when it is good to sit. Live.
Enjoy, Repeat.
It
is always ...
Friday, February 5, 2016
Rainbow spaghetti
Posted by
TJ
Coloring
books are not what I remembered. Grand Daughters M and C, Grand Son
M, and I were trading markers back and forth, putting color to the
intricate design of swooping and overlapping lines that filled the
page. Faces pinched in concentration gave display to the challenge of
tracing the twisting paths, each of us laughing when one of us “got
lost”. The normal routine for the last few days would have seen us
all in the pool or on the beach. But pale mid-western
winter complexions needed a break from the Florida sun, so we were
spending a few hours playing indoors.
Outdoors
lay Ocean, beach, heated pool, hot tub, and shuffle board, all
amenities put to good use as the week unfolded. It was the first time
Kintala's crew had been consistently off the boat since...well, its
been a few months anyway. Though we did return to our v-berth each
evening for sleeping, each day saw us joining the family at the
beach, morning coffee still in hand. The Ocean was the main draw, but
the chilly water temperature and surf reduced ocean play to mostly
wading. Grand Daughter EB (youngest at just over a year old) was
fearless, doing the toddler stomp due east until the wavelets broke
over her knees. Mom was always at hand to make sure all was well,
since the usual result of such boldness was landing on hands and
knees, little face close to the Atlantic waters. As soon as she was
on her feet she would set out for Europe once again.
We
also spent hours in the pool where Grand Son G went from barely
getting wet on the steps on day one, to clinging hard to the sides on
day two, to paddling happily across the pool by day four. Grand
Daughter C (the oldest) was shy about getting her head wet, at first.
By week's end she was jumping into the deep end and staying under
water as long as she could manage. Each of the kids, in the way that
kids do, got a little bolder as they pushed their fears back, making
their way in the world. I try not to think about how many more little
one's fears they will have bested by the time we see them again.
The
temporary intersection of being boat gypsies and resort vacationers
was interesting. I think it fair to say that we live a bit “raw”
as boat gypsies. Sleep is often interrupted. (Last night we were on
deck at 0400 resetting the fenders as the winds shifted.) We adjust
for the temperature by adding or shedding sweat shirts, long sleeves,
and shoes. Weather discussions are frequent and often detailed,
getting it wrong means more than just not having the umbrella at hand
should it rain. Now that the much anticipated time with family is
over, nearly 700 miles lie between us and where we need to be by early
spring. A good many of those miles are waters Kintala has never
passed through before. By any comparison with resort vacationing, it
is sure to be an adventure. Not all that different from toddler
stomping eastbound into the waves.
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| A fog bow over the beach |
When
we do see family again, all of the kids will have learned new skills,
found new places to explore, and learned some new lessons. Each will have experienced the tangled
up, interwoven ribbons of living, will have pushed some back fears, and managed to overcome challenges unexpected. There will have been moments when they felt lost, but eventually picked up the trail and sorted things out. They will have stories of rainbow spaghetti.
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