Coloring
books are not what I remembered. Grand Daughters M and C, Grand Son
M, and I were trading markers back and forth, putting color to the
intricate design of swooping and overlapping lines that filled the
page. Faces pinched in concentration gave display to the challenge of
tracing the twisting paths, each of us laughing when one of us “got
lost”. The normal routine for the last few days would have seen us
all in the pool or on the beach. But pale mid-western
winter complexions needed a break from the Florida sun, so we were
spending a few hours playing indoors.
Outdoors
lay Ocean, beach, heated pool, hot tub, and shuffle board, all
amenities put to good use as the week unfolded. It was the first time
Kintala's crew had been consistently off the boat since...well, its
been a few months anyway. Though we did return to our v-berth each
evening for sleeping, each day saw us joining the family at the
beach, morning coffee still in hand. The Ocean was the main draw, but
the chilly water temperature and surf reduced ocean play to mostly
wading. Grand Daughter EB (youngest at just over a year old) was
fearless, doing the toddler stomp due east until the wavelets broke
over her knees. Mom was always at hand to make sure all was well,
since the usual result of such boldness was landing on hands and
knees, little face close to the Atlantic waters. As soon as she was
on her feet she would set out for Europe once again.
We
also spent hours in the pool where Grand Son G went from barely
getting wet on the steps on day one, to clinging hard to the sides on
day two, to paddling happily across the pool by day four. Grand
Daughter C (the oldest) was shy about getting her head wet, at first.
By week's end she was jumping into the deep end and staying under
water as long as she could manage. Each of the kids, in the way that
kids do, got a little bolder as they pushed their fears back, making
their way in the world. I try not to think about how many more little
one's fears they will have bested by the time we see them again.
The
temporary intersection of being boat gypsies and resort vacationers
was interesting. I think it fair to say that we live a bit “raw”
as boat gypsies. Sleep is often interrupted. (Last night we were on
deck at 0400 resetting the fenders as the winds shifted.) We adjust
for the temperature by adding or shedding sweat shirts, long sleeves,
and shoes. Weather discussions are frequent and often detailed,
getting it wrong means more than just not having the umbrella at hand
should it rain. Now that the much anticipated time with family is
over, nearly 700 miles lie between us and where we need to be by early
spring. A good many of those miles are waters Kintala has never
passed through before. By any comparison with resort vacationing, it
is sure to be an adventure. Not all that different from toddler
stomping eastbound into the waves.
A fog bow over the beach |
When
we do see family again, all of the kids will have learned new skills,
found new places to explore, and learned some new lessons. Each will have experienced the tangled
up, interwoven ribbons of living, will have pushed some back fears, and managed to overcome challenges unexpected. There will have been moments when they felt lost, but eventually picked up the trail and sorted things out. They will have stories of rainbow spaghetti.
1 comment:
Nice. An admirable bit of writing!
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