Showing posts with label community. Show all posts
Showing posts with label community. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

Taking Sides

My family was steeped in academia because my dad was a professor of electrical engineering at the University of Pittsburgh for his whole career. Very early in my life, we moved to South America for a position he took to help establish a school of electrical engineering at a university near Valparaiso, Chile. I was enrolled in an all-girls Catholic school there where I was one of only two white girls. At the tender age of six, I experienced racial prejudice from the receiving end. I was perplexed and hurt, as I had never witnessed racial prejudice first hand.

Once reestablished in the US, our whole family attended the university annual retreat for orientation of the incoming freshmen, of which my dad was a key organizer. Even as a young girl, I interacted with the college students from many countries. Our home was frequently host to international students. My whole family was at least bilingual, my older brother spoke at least three languages fluently and understood more. Our friends were of every race and ethnicity. This was the norm for me, this understanding that all peoples are equal and intrinsically valuable. To harbor hate or disdain towards another human being simply by reason of their culture or skin color was so foreign an idea that, after adopting our biracial child, I was floored at the visceral reaction of some folks.

We are a melting pot, a country populated by the influx of immigrants from many nations, drawn to the ideals of equality. The melding of multiple races is a difficult thing, but the richness of our culture lies in the good things brought to it by all of these immigrants. But we've forgotten this.

Recently, these cultures, which have woven so much beauty into the tapestry that we call the United States, have come under attack with none to come to their defense. We've become lazy and comfortable. As long as we have our favorite brand of beer and 258 channels of inane banter, we strive to avoid any conflict that might upset the balance and threaten our comfort. I confess, I'm guilty. I have always hated conflict of any kind, striving to please in order to stave off uncomfortable encounters. But for those in this country who have lived their entire lives in peace and with freedom, a wakeup call has ensued. It's time to take a side.

If you were listening at all, you could hear the murmurings among the thoughtful over recent months. "Surely this could never happen here the way it did in Germany." "We would never allow such a man to take control of our society, would we?" Yet, the thoughtful existed in Germany and were persuaded to agree or be silent.

Holocaust survivor Primo Levi writes:
"In spite of the varied possibilities for information, most Germans didn’t know because they didn’t want to know. Because, indeed, they wanted not to know. . . . In Hitler’s Germany a particular code was widespread: those who knew did not talk; those who did not know did not ask questions; those who did ask questions received no answers. In this way the typical German citizen won and defended his ignorance, which seemed to him sufficient justification of his adherence to Nazism. Shutting his mouth, his eyes and his ears, he built for himself the illusion of not knowing, hence not being an accomplice to the things taking place in front of his very door." (Levi, Survival and Reawakening, 381)
I suspect that as the immediacy of the Holocaust waned, many thoughtful people in Germany reviewed the events in their minds, wondering how such an atrocity could take place without their own realization of the danger. They were duped, led like lemmings to the cliff. Today, the pitter patter of little lemming feet marching toward the cliff sounds again.

Some have, and indeed will again, criticize the writers of this blog for being too political in a sailing blog. But what good will it do to have a sailing blog if we no longer have the freedom to write in it or, indeed, to even participate in the activity at all?  Will you build for yourself that illusion of not knowing, guilt laid at your door by passivity, or will you see this as the time to stand and take a side? I've chosen mine. I draw the line in the sand and I denounce hatred and bigotry and choose the side of love, inclusion and community. Will you join me?

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Yessss!!!

Probably the most asked question we get from non boating people (or NBPs as they used to be called in our old marina) is “Why? Why would you possibly want to live on a small boat without TV?” Today this is an easy answer for me. There are four or five boats anchored closely together in the little harbor where we are in Wrightsville Beach. One of the boats is Bees Knees, the one I mentioned in a previous post. It is captained by a single-hander, a woman, and her dog. Today was the day she had set aside to do her engine maintenance – oil change, fuel filter change, and impeller change, the last of which was giving her some difficulty. The impeller was stuck and she needed a tool to remove it. She caught us on our way back to the boat after having taken a walk on the beach (more on that later) but, as one of our dockmates at our old marina opined, the first tool we were asked for would be one we didn't have in spite of the fact that we had taken what most people believed to be too many tools. She zipped off to the next boat but was unsuccessful in finding one. After being gone a good bit of the afternoon, we were cleaning up the deck in preparation for our departure tomorrow when she popped out of the companionway on her boat and shouted “I did it! Yesss!!”, all the while doing a bit of a dance. Everyone on all the boats began to clap and whistle to congratulate her on her success.


This is a unique community that we have joined. Friendships are strong, swift, and all-encompassing. Courtesy is the rule, generosity and encouragement the standard. Have you ever wondered how good the world would be if politicians would just step aside and let us all do our thing?